WHAT GAY PORN TEACHES PEOPLE ABOUT SEX
A lot of people forget that pornography is a film but there are certain myths About Gay Porn. Even amateur films for the most part are constructed, unless you are looking at a genuine home video. The scenes are choreographed down from the foreplay, to the cum shot with each sexual position succumbing to a specific angle from the director in which they can get the ultimate, and most pleasing shots. In that regard, the sexual positions that are generally seen within gay porn are not exact replicas of what you would do in the bedroom, as in the bedroom you’re performing for your sexual partner and not for the camera.
That is one of the primary differences between XXX films, and partaking and enjoying sexual activity at home. In this article, we will explore the myths surrounding porn and remind you of both the construction of the scene, and the actual facts concerning gay sex.
Common Myths About Gay Porn
1. Asses Are Always Clean
In porn, asses never seem to have to undergo douching. They’re always seemingly spotless from the time that they ‘meet’ to the time that they’re sticking it in. But they’re not always clean and, pardon the pun, shit happens. There are moments in sex when the anal cavity may not always be spotless and it’s simply a fact of life.
Asses, and anal sex, in gay porn are cleaned prior to the scene with hard core douching.
Careful Prep Before a Scene
When a gay performer has been booked there is a careful preparation that can occur even days before the scene begins. In an interview with gay porn star Levi Karter, signed with the studio Cocky Boys, goes through his preparation routine.
In it, he declares that he’ll do a light cardio work out on the day of the shoot. And that if he’s doing a versatile or bottom scene then he’ll change up his diet in the days before the shoot. ‘I won’t eat any carbs, instead I’ll eat a lot of protein so that I don’t get blocked up.’
In the real world, you’re not always going to have notice that you’re going to have sex, so you need to take into account that asses aren’t always going to be clean and how to prepare your ass for amazing sex.
2. About Gay Porn
They’re also rarely virgins. Normal people simply cannot be picked up off the street and suddenly engage in thick 10 inch anal sex. There’s a lot of preparation involved. Warming up of the muscles, use of toys to prepare the anus for anal sex and a myriad of other things.
It doesn’t just magically fit in.
3. Locations
The locations and props, that they use in sex scenes for gay films are always easy. This one is a bit of a teaser. You’ve seen someone having sex on the bonnet of the car, on the staircase. Or even on the back of a motorbike, or wearing uncomplicated clothing and male lingerie that just rips off.
You attempt to replicate only to find that it is incredibly awkward. Whilst hot, is never as easy as it looked on the screen. Porn shoots can take an entire day, or even multiple days to film. They edit out the awkward parts to give you the clean and smooth version.
Try looking up porn bloopers for an indication of what can go wrong during sex scenes. It’s really not as easy as it looks.
4. Stamina
You’ll be watching a scene that goes for an entire forty minutes, and be watching that thinking. Gosh how many position changes can these guys go through and still not have a bead of sweat on them.
During filming there’s actually numerous breaks for filming. A good way to acknowledge this is by considering that every time there’s a camera angle change, most of the time that was preceded by a break. A lot of guys might use a male prostate stimulator on themselves to get them back up and running. Or they might be using a Flesh light or some other masturbator that they use to get hard again.
No-one is simply able to thrust and take it for that long without a break every now and then. So if you’re watching a film with your partner, and finding that you only make it through the foreplay scene. Don’t panic. It’s perfectly normal.
5. Gag Reflex
If you ever watch a scene, and wonder how the hell that he took that in his mouth the first time and didn’t even flinch. Just remember that that’s probably the third or fourth take that they’ve had.
Not everyone is the perfect innocent angel that can take a massive dick down their throat the first time. It certainly doesn’t make them a good boy or girl. If a performer isn’t able to handle the size of the dick that their taking. And there’s some really big ones out there. What they’ll do is they’ll cut the scene, resume it from a different angle and keep going.
Fact of life, even porn stars have gag reflexes as well.
6. The Lighting
There’s very little chance that you’re ever going to see that much detail in real life. Lighting involved in a porn shoot is enough to light up a person’s spirit and soul.
There’s an incredible amount of lighting that’s used to illuminate the scene and provide the perfect clarity of vision and mind. In fact, the only way that you’re ever going to see that much detail is if you set up a spotlight in your bedroom. They also have to change the angle of the lighting to match the scene. Which is another reason why they’ll constantly be having to take breaks during filming.
7. Porn Stars Undergo Training
They might work out, they might do yoga, and they might practice stretching. Some of the scenes in the films are simply not possible by us regular folk who don’t do yoga, or have training in the gym.
Keep in mind, don’t always attempt this at home.
8. Spanking
Every porn star that gets spanked during sex looks like they’re enjoying it. They might be, they might not be. Like it is in real life, there are some people that enjoy being spanked with a hand or leather whip. There’s people that absolutely despise being spanked.
Fact is not everyone is going to enjoy it. So don’t go all out on that next sexual tryst with your lover if you’re not sure that they’re going to like it.
9. Foreplay is Never As Simple As It Looks
Every scene with foreplay looks like they’re absolutely nailing the exact parts of each other’s bodies to create maximum pleasure, love and desire. Foreplay is an extension of love. It requires precision and an understanding of each other’s bodies and the way that they experience pleasure in the mind.
Never that easy to nail it the first time. Foreplay in porn scenes is almost like a form of artistic anarchy which sees foreplay being reduced to the same standard formula. There’s alternative forms of foreplay out there.
Find out what your sexual partner enjoys and utilise it.
10. Breaking a Sweat
We mentioned sweat earlier and that porn stars rarely sweat despite the physical exertion. They’ll have assistants that wipe them down during breaks and camera angle changes. As sweat never translates to hotness on the screen.
11. All Gay Porn Stars are Gay
They’re not. A lot of straight, and married men, will do gay porn simply because the par rates are better in gay porn than they are in straight porn.
What better way to provide for your family and give your wife the finances to be able to do what she wants?
Matt Hughes is an excellent example of this.
A straight and married performer with a child, he started out in gay porn because his 11 inch penis got paid more there than it did in straight porn. He had a lot of debts and used porn to pay off those debts and provide for his family. After building up a sizeable reputation he transitioned back into straight porn. Where, because of his experience, he could request a higher pay rate.
Though it will be noted that he switched his on screen name from Matt Hughes in gay porn, to Danny D in straight porn. As, apparently, some people have issues knowing their favourite boy toy did gay porn.
12. Porn Pays A lot of Money
Adult Film scenes do not pay a lot of money. They might only get anywhere from a couple of hundred to a day’s work, to a couple of thousand. Sale of your favourite gay XXX video goes a long way in ensuring that the stars get their pay.
This is depending on their reputation and popularity. Majority of a porn stars money comes through putting their names on products, external business, owning film companies and the like. Many porn stars will produce dozens to over a hundred scenes per year as opposed to the one or two films that Hollywood stars will produce.
13. All Porn Stars Will Orgasm Together
Whilst this is possible, it’s actually quite rare because of the pressure of the film crew, and the level of physical enjoyment that they actually might be getting from the scene.
What might happen is that the cum shot is replicated through a similar fluid whilst the partner comes. Or through some creative editing they might seemingly come at the same time.
From here, the size of the load is what is important. They might find themselves not masturbating and being chaste for a period of time before the scene. In order to give them a more virile and fuller load, or they might even use fake cum.
14. The Awkwardness
Sex in real life can have awkward moments, and the same is true within gay porn scenes. There’s usually a considerable break between the scene where the guy pulls out, and when he finally ejaculates. During that time, he’s standing in the middle of the room. Furiously masturbating in front of a bunch of cameras, film crew, assistants and whomever else needs to be there.
All just waiting for that money shot.
He might even be standing there, ready to cum and either not give the crew enough notice, or give them notice only to discover wait a minute. . . two more minutes guys. That sound awkward enough? Might be more awkward to discover that not all the jizz you see is real.
If a guy can’t come, they’re not going to waste the scene, they’ll get a tube of fake cum and with creative editing, viola, the guy cums.
15. Size of the Dick
Not every guy is hung like a horse. In gay porn the more ideal your dick, the more you’re going to get paid. So gay porn stars will use a various methods to increase the size of their penis. Whilst you can kind of increase the size, if you have a dick that qualifies as not looking good on camera, you’re not going to be an awesome porn star.
Dicks come in a myriad of different shapes, styles, colours, sizes and what not. Not everyone has a ‘pretty’ dick.
Gay films are an expression of fantasy
It’s a business, and a solid one at that. Rarely can it be performed like it is in porn scenes simply because of some of the constraints and restrictions that we have listed above. Sex is sensual, it’s messy and it’s awkward. Perfect sex simply doesn’t exist.
So next time you’re watching a gay film and you’re getting upset that you can’t do exactly what they do, just remember, they’re acting.